Pi4 not wanting to pair bluetooth nor playing audio via 3.5mm aux

[TimyIsCool]

Describe the problem
I downloaded a fresh install of both the OS and sound, and managed to pair once but there was no audio output now I can't repair, even if I forget the device and reboot the pi

Expected behavior
Should just work

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Device information

• Board (hardware info): Pi4 8GB
• Device type (as seen in balenaCloud): Raspberry Pi 4 (using 64bit OS)
• balenaOS version: balenaOS 5.3.7